quality or quantity?

“女性朋友都应该了解小学生都能琅琅上口的句子：“真正的友谊是雪中送炭，而非锦上添花”！交朋友必须要交有智慧、真心相待的朋友，当你真正有需要的时候可以对她们大哭一场，尽情倾诉；好朋友将会激励你发挥所长，找出内心真正的需求，并帮助你实现梦想，而不会冷眼旁观；好朋友在你得到幸福时，也会真心祝福。”

“所以交朋友一定要有智慧。因为普通朋友很多，而且来得也快，去得也快。只有坦诚以待，有情有义，彼此交心包容的朋友，才是你一生中最大的资产。但是，好朋友多半数不完五根手指头，既然是资产，你就必须要经营，付出时间、努力和精力。”

Yes, what i care is QUALITY instead of QUANTITY. You will never know who is your true friends sometimes untill u face certain difficulities/problems. Friends who can 锦上添花 is just so easy to find but how many of them can really 雪中送炭?

Ask yourself, how many friends who can make u split out everything from your mouth without thinking much/hesitating? How many of them can make u crying in front of them without worrying that she might tell anyone? How many friends who can make u 100% confident that she will never betray u someday? Be honest to yourself and keep the answer to yourself.

Sometimes i saw lots of cases around me. I saw few bunches of best /close friends,from what we see, they get along sooo well with each other and it's like what u called SISTERS/BROTHERS ! I might not be knowing them well but, i can always hear lots of bad things/rumours from one of them!

For example :

A: " wa, she very good with u hor, always call u one!"

B: " no lar, sometimes its not like what u've seen!she very..gilek....bla bla bla.."

A: " eh is tat ur best friend ? i know her i know her!!! "

B: " yeala.damn famous hor?cos she damn hiao one! always fuck around.."

A:" wah that xxx is so pretty and gentle..smile also damn sweet..."

B: " who knows..maybe she pretends one eh?"

WHAT DO U THINK if u were A?

IF SHE CAN TALK TO YOU BEHIND OTHERS BACK, MEANS SHE WILL DO THE SAME THING TO YOU LA, STUPID!

不要对号入座~

如有巧合，纯属虚构

CONCLUSION:

交朋友一定要有智慧。